Helpful Tips In Boosting Your Confidence (men)
It is known that a lot of youths today(including adults) are victims of social akwardness,they quaver when talking to strangers,scared of attending social functions or gatherings....most men are even scared of approaching a lady confidently.
however,this article is written to provide assistance to such issues i.e confidence.
listed below are tips on boosting your confidence as a man.
LEARN TO GIVE PLEASURE TO WOMEN
Most women are said to likely listen and get attracted to a guy who makes them happy easily,this loosens them up and cure insecurities...as a man,try to be funny and sometimes "savage" around ladies,they fall for guys with such abilities...if you find it difficult to crack jokes,you can watch some youtube videos on them...but practice is key
2.LIFT HEAVY WEIGHTS.
It is said that lifting of heavy weights and engaging in a daily workout routine helps burn calories,this in other sense boosts confidence,since when your body looks good and well-shaped you get easily relaxed when talking with people(opposite s*x or same).to do this,you can download private workout apps on your smartphones,set a daily routine and follow it...remember practice is key.
3.LEARN HOW TO FIGHT.
We all watch films in which women tend to fall in love with the strongest guy,this is due to the need for security,womwn are said to fell more secure around stronger guys than weaker ones.....you can sign up fo fighting classes,but dont cause domestic violence once you are equipped,just use it when necassary.
4.DRESS LIKE A WINNER.
We all know the qoute"dress the way you want to be addressed"....when you dress well,you naturally gain the attention of some ladies before you even approach them,and if you eventually do,you've got yourself a date...if you are not good at dressing up,always mixing odd colours,youtube videos can help you out.....but simply spend your money on good clothes and nice deodorants.
5.ACCOMPLISH GOALS AND LIVE WITH PURPOSES.
When talking to a lady,they love to hear yourdreams and see if it is realistic...set goals and dreams(realistic ones),it is one thing to set goals and another to not acheive them,so it's favorable if u set attainable goals and also strive to acheive your dreams by equipping yourself wisely through books...a book i recently read titled "putting your dreams to the test" by john c. maxwell will help.
6.MASTER YOUR BODY.
When conversing,it is good to watch your body posture as it sends signals to your listener,you can watch youtube vidoes on mastering your body posture....but get a lot of sleep,and drink a lot of water to stay hydrated.
7.HAVE SELECTIVE MEMORIES(FOCUS ON PAST SUCCESSES)
You may see this as not true but it actually help,when you focus your mind on past successes,you don't feel scared when addressing someone....it propels you for more sucesses and even if you fail,you would belive you can do better.
8.CONQUER YOUR INSECUIRITIES.
10.GET CENTERED AND DEVELOP MENTAL STRENGTH.
I sincerely hope this tips helps boost your confidence,but remeber practice is key.
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